
bunfart90
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About
I go by Bun online. I'm a 24-year-old nonbinary with a BA in creative writing. You can read more about my gender identity and such here.I am a full-time case manager at a domestic violence shelter.I'm a published poet and author, and have experience editing for literary publications such as the Great Lake Review and Subnivean. I have been published to GLR and The Gandy Dancer.My hobbies include photography, video games, art, and emotional support. I am mod bun on @traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors, Read my mod bio here. I also run @agirldying. More info about that blog here. You may also find me on Kokobot and Heartsupport.I am open about the fact that I am a NCCSA/COCSA survivor with CPTSD and other disorders. I want to spread awareness and hopefully help normalize these things.Fun fact: My username is based off of a punchline of last joke in a joke book I had when I was 9. I decided to keep it as a username because there is no other bunfart90 out there.
Works
Fall 2021 edition of Great Lake Review (GLR) - "To Kill a Girl" & "Groom"
Fall 2022 edition of GLR - "Crime Scene"
Fall 2022 edition of The Gandy Dancer - "A Thruway Ramble"I also formatted and assembled a single copy of my first chapbook I made for my poetry capstone called A Girl, Dying, after @agirldying.
DNI
I don't expect everyone on this list to respect my boundaries but nonetheless I think it's still important for you to know what I don't tolerate. I also know that part of the criticism around DNI lists is essentially "listing your triggers" however none of these are necessarily triggering, mostly just distasteful to me and will simply block on sight.
I'm happy to explain why any of these are on the list.
My DNI varies per blog.
Hard no:
the typical homophobia, racism, transphobia, ableism etc.
DDLG & NSFW
depp stans and other misogynists
TERFs, radfems, "gender critical"
pro lifers
nicki minaj stan (she's married to a sex offender who raped a child and she publicly gaslit the victim)
MAPs, MAAs, clovergender, other pedophiles
gore
jehovah's witnesses
anti vaxx (including for covid, especially if u believe vaccines cause autism)
proud boys and other white supremacists (this includes all lives matter, blue lives matter, back the blue and other variants)
ana & meanspo. i report "notpro" content on sight and go out of my way to report blogs like these.
biphobes and panphobes
zoos, zetas, whatever animal-fuckers call themselves these days
anti-caedogender/caedosexual (you don't believe trauma can affect identity)
sanists, including narc & borderline abuse truthers
tread carefully:
lolita, coquettecore, angelcore
christians
harry potter fans
anti xenogenders
antiship
anti self dx
anti-endo or endo neutral
anti traumacore/ventcore
ace exclusionists
gender abolitionists
trump supporters, conservatives, & republicans
Just know that if you are on the red list at all, ignoring this is going to be mutually unpleasant.
If you're in the orange, please DM me and we can discuss whether or not you can/want to interact.
my blogs
and three others.
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